How do geeks act

As a geek, I am really tired of the culture wars, and I hope to avoid taking part in them even if others try to drag me in. That is harder than it may sound. MacQuarrie has posted a little article on a recent controversy in the archery community. My instant reaction is to get irritated when someone from the archery world gets angry when it is called a geek sport. Is this a bad thing? I want to go fight for the label I embrace.

But if I were to enter the fray, I would have already lost the battle, because that whole conversation is trying to decide what content fits under the word geek. Archery isn't a geek sport any more than curling or basketball are geek sports, but there are such things as archery, curling, and basketball geeks.

The genius of Jim's MacQuarrie's definition of the word geek is that it clearly defines what it means to be a geek without excluding anyone. It tells people to be who they want to be no matter what others say.

One thing that could potentially distinguish geeks from the rest of the people is their undying commitment to the things they love, be it gaming, high-tech gadgets, or comics. To others, it may just be a hobby or a pastime. It defines who they are. Due to their extreme loyalty and commitment to what they love, they only seek the company of those who exhibit the same enthusiasm as they do.

They tend to group together, in a small community, preferring to mingle with their peers and shunning those who are not as committed to the same passion — which would explain the social misfit-ness of geeks. In any case, they are stringent when it comes to accepting people as their kind. Having a lot of pride in their level of understanding of a subject , at times, geeks also expect others to comprehend what they mean without a need for explanation. This would further push them into seclusion , preferring to instead talk and communicate with their own kind, rather than in real-life relationships.

This would explain why geeks who are into gaming could spend hours and hours without stopping for food while trying to complete their games. As I mentioned earlier, the life of a geek revolves around what they love. They never stop exploring and always keep themselves updated about the things they are obsessed with: reading everything about the latest high-tech gadgets, attending every cosplay event and conference in town, etc.

They just want to be the first to be there, the first to hear about unconfirmed rumors, and of course, the first to break the news to everyone. After all, it is very much their life goal. There are tons of cute t-shirts you can buy online that have tongue-in-cheek references to pop culture. Star Wars and Doctor Who shirts are very common in particular. Wearing a shirt like this is a casual clothing choice that will fit you right in with the rest of the geeks. While the majority of people you cross paths with won't get the reference, fellow geeks almost certainly will.

Recognizing a fellow fan can lead to great new friendships. Consider donning glasses. Whether you wear glasses or not, wearing them carries the association of being more intelligent than the average person. Although it's not recommended you wear glasses if you don't have a proper use for them, trading your contact lenses back for glasses can be a smart move if you're embracing your geeky side.

Non-prescription glasses can be worn by would-be geeks without a need for them. If you really want to complete the typical geek look, you might think about adding a pair of clear glasses to your wardrobe. This is not recommended however, as geeks with legitimate prescriptions may be offended by the fashion choice. Show confidence as a geek. They love what they love. They are who they are. In order to be a true geek yourself, you need to embrace this mentality as well. Take full confidence in who you are, and reflect upon all the things that make you worthwhile.

Part 3. Accept that geeks are social creatures. Keep in mind that geeks are social creatures by design and definition. Even if you're incredibly introverted, you can stand to gain a lot by talking to other people and sharing the things that make you tick.

Overcoming shyness isn't easily done. Luckily with a common interest ready to talk about, it's a lot easier to break the ice. If you feel timid at first when talking to someone new, remember that they have at least one thing in common with you.

If need be, you can just talk about that the entire time. Most geeks won't complain about discussing their interests one bit.

Join web forums. Part of the reason geeks have become so cool is the rise of the internet. Now, no matter how specific and obscure your interests are, you can meet likeminded people at the touch of a button. Joining web forums is invaluable when you want to meet friends locally or from abroad. Join multiple forums based on each your interests and comment on threads you think look interesting.

You'll start meeting a lot of people really quickly this way. Social media outlets like Facebook have in-site groups that you can join for the same purpose. Keep in mind that talking over the internet is no replacement for in-person socializing. With any luck, you can meet people locally using the internet. Attend conventions. Whether the convention is for anime, science fiction, comic books, video games, or computers, attending one of these events is sure to be a memorable experience.

Although you'll only stand to get a lot out of going if you have a vested interest in the subject at hand, they're a great opportunity to meet people who are into the same kind of stuff you are. Game together. Nonetheless, video and computer gaming remains a tried-and-tested favourite amongst geeks. If you have any geek friends who might be interested in playing a game with you, set something up and play. It's a good idea to have live microphones working; that way you can talk to your friends while you're playing together.

MMORPGS massively multiplayer online role playing games are perfect for the would-be geek, as it's an opportunity to immerse yourself in a passion and share the experience with others. Consider the risk of alienation. Although you might get closer to people with the same interests through geekdom, you'll probably end up alienating yourself from the mainstream of society.

Even if you're totally functional in society, there are going to be people from the mainstream that will judge anyone who shows an unfashionable interest in something unfashionable. Fortunately, you're not alone. There are lots of other geeks out there to band together with. You can look to them if the loneliness ever starts to get to you. Being a geek is arguably more difficult if you're a woman.

There are some men in the subculture that will take exception to women trying to join in. Don't let yourself be riled by these individuals, and know that they are the exception to the rule. You don't have to own them. But stay up to date on the latest technologies and advancements in science.